The sexiest thing you can do for a woman is LEAD her.

From the moment they set eyes on you, chicks can tell if you are dominant or submissive to them.

Dominant = Masculine = Potential Lover. To tell ya in this case Masculine doesn’t necessary mean having six pack and having the big guns. Dominant means being confident enough that you would give her your opinion and expect her to follow it, rather than follow hers. It doesn’t mean that you should not be a good listener, be a very astute listener but that doesn’t mean that you really follow what she says. Women like men who would listen to what they have to say but love to be in bed with men who tell them what to do and how to do. Establish establish your role from the get-go. Don’t be afraid to lock eyes with her, because the instant you look away, she will see that you are intimidated by her and this is not attractive. Girls are supposed to be intimidated by us, not vice-versa!

Submissive = Feminine = Uhh…Let’s just be friends!

So let’s say you do the approach and play her enough to get the number. Before you decide to call, have a master plan in place because for a woman, it is a huge turn off when you say stuff like “I dunnooooooo…what do you want to do?”

It’s also not attractive when you look for her approval with questions. She ain’t your momma, so don’t go looking for permission.

There is a world of difference between ASKING her “Will you go out with me?” and TELLING her “You seem pretty cool. Let’s hang out sometime…or I would like to take you out for dinner tonight.”

Let her know exactly what is gonna happen and how much fun it will be, or better yet, just take her hand and MAKE it happen right then and there!

As the man in this mating game, it’s your job to call the shots. You decide where the conversation goes. You decide when/where to meet. You decide when it’s time to switch venues. You set the frame of the interaction. All this happens by YOU ASKING THE RIGHT QUESTIONS.

Keep in mind that chicks get off on submission. It is their nature to be penetrated physically, emotionally, and spiritually. They honestly can’t help getting extremely turned on when they relinquish their control to a man who HANDLES them.

Thing is, even after they have decided they want you, they STILL won’t make that first move. They are simply waiting for you to show dominance and be the MAN that they want you to be.

We all go to malls and plazas and find those hot, attractive babes walking around wishing that only she was walking on your side, and making your buddies jealous. Well I would like to add some tips on the road map to handling women with good looks. Believe me, if you say the wrong thing before getting to know them, you’ll be done without even knowing what you did.

Follow these guidelines (again use them with your utmost common sense as the situation demands) ::

1. The kinda hang out rule first – No matter how tempting, DON’T date a girl just for her looks. It’s not enough. If she’s fun and interesting, ONLY THEN consider it, cause otherwise you won’t be comfortable to make the conversation with her.

2. NEVER tell the girl how attractive she is until much much much much later. Trust me, she’s been told this all her life. She’s bored with it, and she’s BORED WITH YOU if you go there, like every other suck up. She is not looking for those boys, she is looking for MEN who know what they are and know that they would get what they want in life.

3. Turn the tables and BE CASUAL. Every other guy has come on like the puppy dog desperate for a deeper relationship. Don’t even think about going there. Instead, keep it casual, light, playful, and with lots of deep conversation.

4. This is a time to concentrate on YOUR style, YOUR life, and YOUR strengths. She’s going to go out with and stay with you if you have a lot to offer. Keep all your life’s down stories for your roommate.

5. Style. This is the great equalizer. You may not have Brad Pitt looks, but if you have Nic Cage style, you’re good. Think of Cage. He’s got a more personal style than anyone in the movies. Charm, wit, depth, personality, offbeat humor, personal dressing style, uniqueness, tenderness, and above all, confidence and toughness.

6. If the looks issue comes up, handle it like this: usually ignore it, but when she says something like “I’m having a bad hair day” … turn the tables! AGREE with her. This is the time for the cocky/funny thing. Tell her, “When haven’t you had a bad hair day?” It demonstrates that you’re playful, witty, and that her looks are secondary to your budding friendship.

I think that overall you have to display certain qualities that women are naturally to. Women are naturally attracted to men who project: